「哀」型人

「哀」型人
據說能人的心靈會趨於理智與冷靜,是因為領教過「哀」的體驗。因此一旦願望總是難以實現、或即使努力也毫無成果時,就會對自己的能力失去信心、甚至變得懦弱。然而我們應該有深切的體悟,當努力無法如願實現時,正是對自己的一種考驗。相同的一個人之所以無法體會他人的心情感受,也正是因為其不懂得什麼叫「哀」的緣故。文學或繪畫等創造性的工作,很多都是都「哀」的感動所開始。 而哀傷心情的表現方法也因人而異。有的會表現的很過度,有的卻刻意掩飾。當人際關係發生挫折或努力無結果時,內心都會湧現出悲傷的感覺。假使一個人的哀傷感一直持續的話,則看待事情的觀點就會改變,不僅會充滿不安與失望感,同時也會變得很悲觀。此外哀傷感太強烈的話,即使平常很爽快的人,也會變得很憂愁善感。 而哀傷感較弱的人,個性大都會變的男性化,充滿自信同時想法也較為現實,也就是說是屬於理性重於感性之人。
 Took  a test today n d result turns out to be this.. quite accurate.. ^-^
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凡事都是最好的安排

很多时候,有很多事情都无法如我们所愿…我们总是爱说:

 “早知道…………,我就应该……了!”

“当初要是…………,就不会搞成这个样子了!”

“如果…………,那就好了!”

要把“如果”变成“结果”, 还真的是一件不容易的事。没错,有些事情的确是可以在我们的能力范围之内把它变成可能。但无可否认,有些事情却像冥冥中注定事情会发展成这样不如你我所愿的结果。

今天的我虽然是快乐的,但我却不能确保下一秒的我也能保持同样的心情。可能我会更快乐; 当然,我也可能会为了下一秒发生的事情而烦恼,甚至心情不好……但是,相信吗??

凡事都是最好的安排

不管你我信不信,更不管你想不想相信,当我们都抱着这样的心态去面对所发生的每件事时,间接中,它让我们看见了某件事情好的另一面,而不止是单单不好或比较不如愿的一面。如果说人生就像一道路,那么,这道路上就一定有许许多多的转角,许许多多的分岔路。而我们走在这道路上,有很多的可能和不可能在不断的发生。当我们在分岔路口做出抉择时,往往就决定了接下来沿着那一条路走下去的结果。不管那些安排是否如我们所愿,只要坚信每个结果都是最好的安排,就不会因为一些不如意的事而感到太难过,伤心堕落,更不会浪费时间不断自责。换个角度来说,也就是唯有重拾信心,鼓起勇气努力地走下去,才是最积极而且最对得起自己和关心我们的人的做法。

这一次的考试,成绩似乎又下滑了……虽说是意料中事(以我平时的学习态度来看),但还是难免有些失望。不过没关系吧!凡事都是最好的安排――也许这样我在下次的考试,压力不会那么大(至少自己不会给自己设定太高的目标…哈哈…︿o︿)也许这次的失败是为了激励我下一次的考试要更努力……那么,对自己的成绩不是那么满意的朋友们,大家一起再为下一次的考试而加油吧! :-P

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HoLidAY VS ScAr —> T-T

HOLIDAY is here again.(FINALLY..)Anyway, its great to hv a long break after d holiday.. enjoying it very much.. except tat part where I get my big scar on my leg T-T..Fell down along the street.. Too careless while walking dy..Quite pain at d beginning..Luckily now getting better dy..Hope d scar wont be permanent.. L

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一家人

我本身比较喜欢台湾人(飞轮海)

我朋友却较喜欢韩国人(东方神起)

但,没关系

我们都是一家人

因为我们都是亚洲人……

冷~

by chiao yin, pei yee & qi… 哈

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我本身比较喜欢台湾人(飞轮海)

我朋友却较喜欢韩国人(东方神起)

但,没关系

我们都是一家人

因为我们都是亚洲人……

冷~

by chiao yin, pei yee & qi… 哈

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bLuR..

really quite regret that din revise all those things tat I’d learn in matriculation.. everything seems to be so tough.. some simple questions oso seems to be so complicated 4 me.. while others answered it easily..  really feel quite tense when u c d others did well in their studies esp in d lecture hall.. hope i can actually catch up soon.. really dowan to be so blur blur d anymore..

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aGaiN.

.aGaiN.. gonna leave my hometown 4 a long period like i used to be.. finally get to continue my studies in university.. very glad to get d uni tat i want.. n d course tat sounds good to me.. its only 6 hours to go.. dunno wat will happen to me after this 6 hours.. heard a lil bout d orientation week.. hope it won’t be my nightmare for d one whole week.. all d best to everyone who’s gonna enter U soon..

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ignOre

BEing ignored makes somebody feels bad… but not much of us know that trying to ignore somebody else we actually care of is much more harder.. Maybe u can pretend like u r not aware of tat person’s presence in the crowd.. somehow ur heart can still actually track them… Maybe u hv ur own reasons.. but 1 thing is 4 sure… ur heart actually hurts… juz like having a deep cut on it… helplessly… nobody can actually heal ur wound.. so.. try not to ignore somebody u care unless u have no other choice..believe it or not?? It HURTS…

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O.K.??? KO???

Sometimes, there really are some situation tat u dunno wat to do.. any choice oso doesn’t seems like a good decision… NO matter wat u do.. NO matter wat u TRY to DO… It doesn’t makes sense too… Maybe someone should try to stop all this… NObody can actually say who is right and who is wrong.. I’m not very sure about wat i’m thinking this very moment.. BUt it sounds weird to me.. Hope tat’s nothing.. I’ll be ok.. Hope everyone is gonna be ok..Haha.. Everything will be ok..

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eND…

Finally.. A year studying in kmk is going to be history… 13 days.. just study hard 4 13 days n i’ll be bac in my hometown again… Waiting tis moment a long time ago.. but start to feel a lil sad.. coz leaving here means tat i’m going to say goodbye to my friends in kmk.. gonna miss them a lot.. at least we’d suffer together in this environment for 1 year.. many things happened n many things didn’t happen.. these will surely become part of my sweet memories in kmk.. Anyway.. hope everyone will get good result 4 PSPM… 4.00 for everyone.. ALL THE BEST….

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